Comments for Elusive Diversions http://www.bluej.com/elusivone elusive exclusivity - hey, it rhymes Tue, 24 Aug 2010 18:26:39 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Comment on An Ex-Encounter by celebrity fuck you http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=25&cpage=1#comment-8813 celebrity fuck you Tue, 24 Aug 2010 18:26:39 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=25#comment-8813 Sign: zdbrw Hello!!! gwuvw and 9549frkaeyahwn and 2886 : I love your blog. :) I just came across your blog. Sign: zdbrw Hello!!! gwuvw and 9549frkaeyahwn and 2886 : I love your blog. :) I just came across your blog.

]]> Comment on How to deal. (No, really: how to deal?) by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=107&cpage=1#comment-6335 Maria Mon, 19 Jan 2009 03:38:53 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=107#comment-6335 Juicy (and sad). Only you know if he was the one. But my experience is, if you felt he wasn't, then he wasn't. I too was scared when I left a perfectly fine wonderful man who loved me. Just like you, I wondered if there would be anyone else coming... I can't promise you that there will be somebody else. I would think yes, but I don't know your future. I can only tell you that if you felt he wasn't right in any way, then he wasn't. It's not like you have commitment issues and sabotage your relationships. I mean, you've been married... It's just that break ups are never fun or easy. Juicy (and sad).

Only you know if he was the one. But my experience is, if you felt he wasn’t, then he wasn’t.

I too was scared when I left a perfectly fine wonderful man who loved me. Just like you, I wondered if there would be anyone else coming… I can’t promise you that there will be somebody else. I would think yes, but I don’t know your future. I can only tell you that if you felt he wasn’t right in any way, then he wasn’t. It’s not like you have commitment issues and sabotage your relationships. I mean, you’ve been married… It’s just that break ups are never fun or easy.

]]> Comment on I did it! by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=83&cpage=1#comment-5975 Maria Fri, 08 Aug 2008 19:36:23 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=83#comment-5975 Fingers crossed here... Fingers crossed here…

]]> Comment on I am serious about this by elusivone http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=76&cpage=1#comment-5845 elusivone Thu, 26 Jun 2008 02:38:02 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=76#comment-5845 Thanks Maria :) I feel the same way. I think things really do have a timing to them and when we're not expecting something, good things fall into our laps. Of course, like my new post, bad things can also fall into our laps when we're least expecting it! :) However, I am really hoping to get a PeaceCorps gig. I'm still filling out the application, trying to be sure I write the best essays I can and documenting my skills and whatnot. But, I will push as far as I can. :) Thanks Maria :) I feel the same way. I think things really do have a timing to them and when we’re not expecting something, good things fall into our laps. Of course, like my new post, bad things can also fall into our laps when we’re least expecting it! :)

However, I am really hoping to get a PeaceCorps gig. I’m still filling out the application, trying to be sure I write the best essays I can and documenting my skills and whatnot. But, I will push as far as I can. :)

]]> Comment on I am serious about this by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=76&cpage=1#comment-5842 Maria Mon, 16 Jun 2008 16:18:37 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=76#comment-5842 That's awesome!... And the fact that the informative session was as timely as that, is not a coincidence. Same thing happened to me when I made the decision to quit my business job. I still didn't know exactly what I would do, but the decison to move on was done. And I was totally serious (like you are right now). I once read: "When you really want something, the whole universe conspires to make your wish come true". I can vouch for that 1000 times. That’s awesome!… And the fact that the informative session was as timely as that, is not a coincidence. Same thing happened to me when I made the decision to quit my business job. I still didn’t know exactly what I would do, but the decison to move on was done. And I was totally serious (like you are right now).

I once read: “When you really want something, the whole universe conspires to make your wish come true”. I can vouch for that 1000 times.

]]> Comment on Three Voices – a Momaday assignment by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69&cpage=1#comment-5620 Maria Sun, 30 Mar 2008 06:19:47 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69#comment-5620 She's leaving next week... It's going to be very sad :( She’s leaving next week… It’s going to be very sad :(

]]> Comment on Three Voices – a Momaday assignment by elusivone http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69&cpage=1#comment-5619 elusivone Sun, 30 Mar 2008 03:24:24 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69#comment-5619 Yeah, it's been tough. I know it's difficult for them too, truly. But, the things that happen with me in their house are the same things that happened growing up and through the rest of my life. I'm just a little kid to them. It hurts because I was always the good kid. My brother never can seem to do any wrong. And, I'm not upset with or jealous of him - I too am proud of him; I think he's proud of me too. But, mom and dad just either expect so much more from me or so much less. It's like a lose-lose situation. I'll make it - I have to! We're back to our passive-aggressive ways since last week. But, I have a better mentality about it. I know it's tough for them and I had to let off some steam. Like I said, I was always the good kid, so back to work... :) Now that I've rambled forever, how much longer is your mom staying? Joaquin (sp?) must be getting BIG!!! :-) Yeah, it’s been tough. I know it’s difficult for them too, truly. But, the things that happen with me in their house are the same things that happened growing up and through the rest of my life. I’m just a little kid to them. It hurts because I was always the good kid. My brother never can seem to do any wrong. And, I’m not upset with or jealous of him – I too am proud of him; I think he’s proud of me too. But, mom and dad just either expect so much more from me or so much less. It’s like a lose-lose situation.

I’ll make it – I have to! We’re back to our passive-aggressive ways since last week. But, I have a better mentality about it. I know it’s tough for them and I had to let off some steam. Like I said, I was always the good kid, so back to work… :)

Now that I’ve rambled forever, how much longer is your mom staying? Joaquin (sp?) must be getting BIG!!! :-)

]]> Comment on Three Voices – a Momaday assignment by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69&cpage=1#comment-5613 Maria Wed, 26 Mar 2008 05:40:13 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=69#comment-5613 Sounds like you're going through a hard time (this and the previous post)... You love your parents, but living back with them after you've become an adult is not easy. I'm sure that it's not easy for them either. But you are at their place now: I can see why you are the one who feels at a disadvantage. I've had my own share of ugly moments with mom at my home these last few months. I think our relationship has grown... We've both have to get to know each other (and live with each other) at these new stages of our lives... You'll make it... Sounds like you’re going through a hard time (this and the previous post)… You love your parents, but living back with them after you’ve become an adult is not easy. I’m sure that it’s not easy for them either. But you are at their place now: I can see why you are the one who feels at a disadvantage. I’ve had my own share of ugly moments with mom at my home these last few months. I think our relationship has grown… We’ve both have to get to know each other (and live with each other) at these new stages of our lives… You’ll make it…

]]> Comment on To Many Titles to Choose From by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=50&cpage=1#comment-4515 Maria Sun, 26 Aug 2007 04:58:32 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=50#comment-4515 Woohoo! Back and busy with personal projects... I like it. Can't wait for the upcoming gossip on being back to school after 30: Juicy-juicy... Woohoo! Back and busy with personal projects… I like it.
Can’t wait for the upcoming gossip on being back to school after 30: Juicy-juicy…

]]> Comment on When is Etiquette Etiquette? by Maria http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=49&cpage=1#comment-1730 Maria Mon, 07 May 2007 18:29:00 +0000 http://www.bluej.com/elusivone/?p=49#comment-1730 Stop eating when the Queen stops eating?... Even if it was my queen, I don't get that. I guess I just don't believe in royalty. Stop eating when the Queen stops eating?… Even if it was my queen, I don’t get that. I guess I just don’t believe in royalty.

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